Interesting question, and I gladly talk about stuff like that and give advice or anything, if you ask something like that non-anon I’ll answer privately and don’t have to spam my followers dashboard with a wall of text, if you’re comfortable talking to me non-anon!

Answer after the cut for everyone who’s interested!

Anyways:

I think communication is very important in a relationship, especially a romantic one. Of course that doesn’t mean that you should spill your spaghetti and confess you own a bad dragon toy on the first date or anything like that. Just bring it up when you feel comfortable of doing so and when it’s appropriate. Don’t make it a huge or weird thing, it’s not. If they ask what you like sexually you can mention it or maybe in general when you talk about sexual likes and stuff. And if your partner is a furry, then it probably won’t even raise an eyebrow.

If you’re in a relationship with a person and this person wouldn’t accept something like that, then I’d say the relationship was pretty shallow to begin with and not worth either one of your time. If the relationship is serious then something like that shouldn’t matter, or would you judge your partner for owning some weird stuff?

If she or he can’t accept that you like to put your cock in a fancy toy every once in a while, then I don’t think this is a person that you should pursue a relationship with. Not saying it’s super important that your fetishes align or anything, but if you care for someone and if you love someone you don’t mind or judge how they masturbate or what they like to do to get off, if nobody gets harmed of course.

Admittedly I never had the problem where I didn’t know how to bring something like that up, though. My wife and I were open about everything from the beginning and she’s pretty much as weird as I am and we don’t really have any secrets from each other, so she knows about my weirdest fetishes and fantasies and vice versa. I told her that I was interested in the bad dragon toy(s) way before I got them. The secret to a successful relationship is trust, openness, acceptance and communication.

And if you talk to your partner about it and they don’t mind, chances are you’ll even get to enjoy the toy(s) together for additional fun!