Rat's Saucy Nest

Regarding that discussion, I also personally think that masturbation is something completely detached and different than sex. I don’t think masturbation is there to replace or imitate sex, it’s its own thing with its own desires and satisfactions. Masturbation is part of your sex life and in my opinion pretty important. I don’t think it can (and should) be replaced by sex (or the other way around). But again, different tastes and opinions. I know some people who quit masturbating when they’re in a sexual relationship. (Or even demand of their partner that they quit masturbating because of insecurities or jealousy, like wtf?!) I’m different than that, because I think masturbation is an important part of sexual health, as long as you don’t completely overdo it, but that goes for everything.

So when I said “it’s not comparable” I’m not grading it or saying anything about quality or if it’s better/worse than actual sex, I’m saying it’s on a completely different playing field. It’s like comparing Football to Soccer. Both are played on a grassy surface, but they have completely different stadiums, rulesets, players, play time and goals.

Anonymous Asks:

Since I'm anon here fuck it: I've never gotten laid before, out of all of the sex toys you own, whats the name of the one that comes the absolute closest to condomless pussy? And, how close does it come? Remember that even if its only 20% as good its still the closest if the others are 15% or 10 %.

ratofponi Said:

They don’t come close. I don’t see them as being a replacement or imitation of the real thing, but rather an addition to masturbation. They’re there to change up masturbation and make masturbating more interesting and diverse. They’re not there to replace real vaginas. A real vagina is very warm, contracts and tightens (you can kinda imitate that effect by squeezing down on the toys, but it’s not really comparable) is very slippery and just in general feels very different. Sorry, I’m sure that’s not what you wanted to hear but the toys are all pretty fun to masturbate with, but I can’t even start to compare them to the real deal. So it doesn’t matter too much which one you get, just get one that you think you’ll enjoy!

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Anonymous Asks:

Wait...you want this toy....butt what is woth your wife ?o.O

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ireallylovenicolewatterson Asks:

I've been curious about buying the Mary, but I like a lot of stimulation, do you recommend it?

ratofponi Said:

Got a couple of asks like that, so I’ll answer it publicly. way too much information masturbation toy talk below the cut.

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Anonymous Asks:

So are those suppose to simulate anal? How do they make toys feel different to be a pussy or an ass? Sorry, I'm very ignorant with toys

ratofponi Said:

I don’t think they’re supposed to simulate real sex, but yeh, they’re supposed to be a butthole, I assume the difference is the tightness and the texture/softness inside. The Mary I own has a very specific and detailed texture inside, so I assume this toy feels different because it has a different inside.

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